Without Hierarchies

Complementarity without hierarchies
Vs.
Complementarity with hierarchies

 

Brian Morris Examines Primary Sources:

From Paul Jewett’s pioneering book in 1975:
“Although it is almost unheard-of to ask a woman to write the Foreword to a theological treatise, for fear of rendering suspect the seriousness and profundity of the work”
It’s a very joyful & hopeful take by Virginia Mollenkott



Virginia Mollonkott, 1975:
“Having been brought up in an environment which never failed to impress upon me my second-class citizenship in the family of God, having been taught that my training in literary exegesis was useless to the church because women must keep silent.”
Virginia Mollenkott, 1975:
“Professor Jewett demonstrates beyond the shadow of a doubt that Jesus’ behavior toward women was revolutionary, that he deliberately and radically broke with the patriarchal and male supremacist attitudes of Hebrew culture…”

From this book. More from it here




Jewett: “Because God made Man male and female, in the natural realm men are fathers and brothers, while women are mothers and sisters. So it must be in the spiritual realm. And when it is, then, and only then, will the church be truly the family of God.”

🔥!

Ummmmm…

Jewett: “The entire case for sexual hierarchy becomes a non sequitur which may be summarized as follows: (a) the woman is in no way inferior to the man, (b) yet she is different from him, (c) therefore she is subordinate to him. This argument is not compelling.”


 

Did you see tweet 8 and 9? Read those again. Back to Grudem:

“The editors of DBE, however, do not want us to use the word ‘comp’ to identify our position. They say, ‘This term must be challenged because egals also believe in gender comp yet complementarity without hierarchy.”




Grudem:

“It will only bring confusion to try to apply
‘complementarian’ to the egalitarian position at this point.”

“(note the subtitle, Complementarity without Hierarchy). This can only result in confusing the debate.”

THIS IS WHAT CBMW IS DOING! Adding confusion! 😡 




Back to Piper. What are they refuting? 

“avoid the opposite mistakes that come from the feminist blurring of God-given sexual distinctions.”

Is that what Jewett was doing? 


So what was Piper thinking that Jewett was minimizing? The manhood of:

Choosing the restaurant?
Paying the bill?
Driving the car?

Read the GREEN, PLEASE.


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Other voices join this conversation.
 
The Gospel Coalition: “A woman’s absence is the first thing declared ‘not good’ in creation. … If God so values women that he includes them as a consistent and essential part of his mission, how can we feel and act any different?” (June, 2018)
Also The Gospel Coalition:
Hierarchy is ego-consciousness. If God is a hierarchical being who set up a hierarchical reality, then the reality we live into and the ultimate reality we reflect is an ego trip. 
That’s why abuse is so prevalent in theologies of hierarchy. What else would we expect? It’s also why the Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood promotes hierarchy within the Trinity and frames God’s work in creation as sovereignty over those below. It justifies their hierarchy over women because it’s rooted in their theology about the nature and work of God.
Rick Pidcock writes about what the fruit of male authority and female submission looks like in John MacArthur’s worldview and practice.
“Entire schools and thousands of ministries are based on the framing of reality and defining of love as submission to absolute male power. And it’s all fueled by conservative evangelical complementarian theology.
Simple adjustments will not suffice. MacArthur himself says it “absolutely pervades everything.” Let’s take him at his word. His entire tower needs to be deconstructed.” Source: what ails them?
A lust to rule over women? A lust for power? A lust for control? In hierarchial culture, men and women carry heavy burdens of law and sin.
 
Jesus is better than John MacArthur. 
Jesus is better than John Piper.
 
“Abuse is about power and control over the victim. Abuse can present in many forms, some of which are more difficult to recognize than others.” BTR.org

Disclaimer here. I’ve witnessed men being abusive to other men. I’ve seen women being abusive to other women. Women can be abusive to men too. More commonly we see men being abusive to women. When we share authority and submission we can recover from these things.

These men, the Johns, are aligned to the law of Moses party. The law swallows up the gospel. Paul wrote Romans and Galatians for us to tell us that our relationship with the good and holy law comes to an end in Christ’s body. 2 Corinthians 3:14 but their minds were hardened. For to this day, at the reading of the old covenant, the same veil remains; it is not lifted, because it is set aside only in Christ. 15 Yet still today, whenever Moses is read, a veil lies over their hearts, 16 but whenever a person turns to the Lord, the veil is removed. 17 Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. 
 
 
Jesus Is Better
Jesus has set us free from both the good and holy law, and Jesus has set us free from gender laws of one-sided male authority, and one-sided female submission. 
 
I find myself married to a man who has elevated me to co-leadership status with him. We are no longer practicing hierarchies of male authority and female submission. We share authority, submission, love, honor and respect with each other. We are enjoying our marriage and consider it to be thriving. Bill honors, respects, values, and celebrates my voice. He is interested in hearing what I am thinking, and holding space. I write about how that happened, and about how Bill is a gift to me here. Our beautiful union is satisfying, because our more intimate moments include mutual desires and pursuing of each other. It’s a healthy relationship.
 
To be transparent with you. I have hate and murder, lust and adultery, and other things going on my heart and mind. The paradox is that I am righteous and holy as a gift, on account of Christ crucified and resurrected. And because my conscience has been set free from the “Do Nots”, I am longer living under their rule and authority, I trust that these things will not have dominion over me. We all walk this paradox, meaning two contradictory truths that exist in tandem. We call to each other to set our minds on the Spirit, where we are righteous and holy as a gift.
 
More and more I am desiring to pursue a culture where men and women are partnering together, without hierarchies, for the sake of human flourishing. I am interested in relationships that will elevate, value and celebrate women as co-priests, co-heirs, co-leaders, mothers and sisters in Christ. In the voice of Hans Gruber, “Ladies and Gentlemen. Ladies and Gentlemen.” We may not ever be able to love our neighbor as we love ourselves, because we show favoritism. But I believe that as we discover our freedoms in Christ we can thrive and flourish together as the body of Christ.
 
I see a Jesus who honors women, gives them a voice, authority, and the ministry of reconciliation. I am one of those women. If you have XX chromosomes so are you. I appeal to you to consider untangling yourself from harmful doctrines. As I continue to examine these things I will consider, and reconsider, who I want to align myself with to create human mutuality. Every day I find myself being grateful to have a co-leader partnership with Bill Batdorf.
Related:
What Happed at the Cross
Romans 7
The Golden Child and the Scapegoat by Kelly Crews Pelton
 

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